Get your life on track
All paid jobs come to an end at some point. Planned or unplanned. Many firms have poor exit management processes. So in some cases people are very bitter when they are disengaged. They get bitter and spend energy on hate and have a victim mentality.
It is the same with marriages. A break up or divorce renders the partners immobile. They are filled with bitterness. They calculate the energy e poured into the relationship. The sacrifices they made and end up filled with rage. That rage disempowers them from focusing on going forward with their lives.
Some get hurt from what they term as betrayal. People they helped or assisted that will not answer their call in time of their need. They rail against humanity and have negative disempowering thoughts. They can’t move forward.
It is good to realize that these things are part of life. Sack, forced resignation, divorce, termination of friendships, ingrates and all that are things some or most will experience.
Move despite it. Accept it. Manage your hurt, seek therapy if you need to. Love yourself enough to be capable of acting positively.
Box the past and focus on new opportunities. Use your anger to uplift yourself. Spin it to positive energy.
At the end, realize that nobody owes you anything. But you owe yourself.
Ademola Adigun
