Wednesday, March 27, 2024

LESSONS FROM KOKORI THE OIL MAN

 LESSONS FROM KOKORI THE OIL MAN 

To be a Frank Kokori or Babagana Kingibe? Which way Nigeria?* 


He was resolute and unwavering in this convinction.


The annulment of the June 12, 1993 election was most resisted by Frank Kokori's NUPENG during which he practically shut down the country and attracted international solidarity towards Chief M.K.O. Abiola.


Unable to withstand Kokori's pressure, Gen. Babangida relinquished power, reluctantly; but only to be soon succeeded by a worse brutal General in Sanni Abacha. 


Abacha's strategy was to woo many of Abiola's key men to his side by dangling juicy offers to them. Abiola's running mate Alhaji Babagana Kingibe was the first to capitulate. He was promised Minister of Foreign Affairs. He told Abacha that the biggest obstacle in his (Abacha's) way was Frank. If Frank could be convinced to join, then the matter would have been solved. 


Abacha sent several top delegations to Frank Kokori begging for his support. But Frank never wavered. The offers included a million pounds at the first instance, a ministerial position of his choosing, houses in choice locations, including any other thing he would demand. It was just a matter of naming it - oil bloc, oil rig, whatever.


Kokori turned Abacha and everything he offered him down. It was a sacrifice and sense of friendship that Abiola never forgot. 


Having failed to convince him, Abacha was left with no choice than show him his other side. He soon smoked him out of his underground hotel hiding place, got him properly beaten to a pulp, and threw him to prison to rot away to death. From 1994 to 1998 when Abacha mysteriously died, Frank Kokori was in detention, without ever a hope to live a free man again. Kokori was eventually released after Abacha's "miraculous death", but life was never the same again. 


Weak, aging and suffering from the indelible afflictions of the consequences of his stubborn worship of principles, he was soon forgotten by friends, allies, proteges and even the Nigerian masses themselves. 


For many years before his death in 2023, Frank Kokori lived quietly in a modest bungalow in his hometown of Ovu, probably built hurriedly, after his prison experience, from whatever savings he had left. 


This was the man who gave NADECO its bite. NADECO could only write beautiful speeches and issue threats on pages of newspapers; it had to fall back to Kokori and his NUPENG comrades to make those threats thick.


The atmosphere at the reception which held at the popular Ovu Grammar School field did not match the status and sacrifice of a man of Frank Kokori's standing. But for the Delta State Government's intervention in his treatment in the last month of his life, the burial ceremony would probably have gone unnoticed. 


Urhobo leadership and major institutions of Urhobo were conspicuously absent at the ceremony. No UPU President General, No Ovie, No Social Clubs, Nothing really. There were likely more Yoruba people at the event than Urhobo. Not many Ovu people even knew that Frank Kokori was being laid to rest yesterday. The Nigerian president may have had a goodwill message in the brochure but that was just infinitesimal when checked against the robust relationship they enjoyed in NADECO in those days. The verdict should be that Frank Kokori was wholesomely abandoned. 


*"The True Life Story of the 'Foolish' Moral Man"*


Deeper reflections on this matter led me to recall the true life story of the foolish moral man as made popular by Professor Peter Ekeh. The man lived in an Urhobo community in those days of British colonial rule, where virtue was highly praised and vice strongly condemned. It was a self-regulated society built on the principles of high morality and discipline, like Achebe's Umuofia, for example.


The man, a poor farmer, one day, stumbled on a huge sum of money, that he suspected had dropped, from the bicycle of the British District Officers (D.O).


Convinced of this fact, and driven by his moral principles, and the anticipated joy and fulfillment of doing a patriotic service, he packed the money properly, hurried home, took his bath, dressed up in his best clothes to appear nice before the whiteman, and without telling anyone, hurried to the colonial office, a long distance by foot, to explain his findings and handover the money to the authorities. 


He arrived just in time enough to be received by the D.O who admitted misplacing the money. After a warm handshake and a thank you, the D.O whispered to his ears "You will never be rich"! He went home, through the long walking distance, disturbed at that statement.


Sitting with his friends in the cool of the evening, he related the story, expecting the commendation of his friends as they would usually do when such things happen in the community social context. But his kinsmen reacted quite in the opposite manner. They seriously condemned him and castigated him for his "foolishness". 


In his kinsmen's estimation, this was a different context entirely. It was in effect, not the D.O's money. It was the people's money forcefully collected from them as taxes, levies, court fines, etc., against their wishes. Any opportunity to get back that money ought to be grabbed with both hands. A different moral standard therefore ought to apply when dealing in the colonial setting. The friends of this man deserted him for his very foolish behaviour. 


Ridiculed by the whiteman, and condemned by his friends, the frustrated man turned to his family for some consolation. On relating his experience to his wife, she was even more furious. She got mad at him and reigned abuses on him. The next morning, she packed her bags and left him. His children also did the same. The moral man was completely abandoned. What ideally use to be prized as a virtuous act in the context of his primordial social situation has turned out as vicious in the colonial context. Unable to comprehend this moral confusion and in the light of his frustrations and abandonment, he was found dead not long after, abandoned to himself!


*The Troubling Thoughts*


The question would be that "Was Chief Frank Kokori right in his rejection of those Abacha offers?" Couldn't he have accepted them, made so much money for himself, established a University in his community, built flyovers and overhead bridges in his Ovu Community, cart away as much public funds as he could, drive in posh cars, holiday around the world as he wished, and thereafter offer grants and scholarships to indigents around him? Wouldn't that be enough to purchase a good name?


Babagana Kingibe, Kokori's ally who sold out to Abacha is now 78 years old, enjoying his retirement in stupendous wealth and goodwill. He is swarmed by loyalists all over the place, and highly regarded by even the current president much more than he did Kokori, his erstwhile NADECO co-traveller.


Kingibe went on to serve three other governments as minister and was even secretary to the government of the federation. He was awarded Grand Commander of the Niger (GCON). Kokori on the other hand, died without the least national award and recognition. So who should we rather be - Babagana Kingibe or Frank Kokori?


To bring the matter closer home, in light of the above, would you in truth, accuse any politician of wrong doing for looting the treasury dry, siphoning public wealth, and throwing principles to the wind? Who wouldn't really, if one was in their position? Or would we rather be like the foolish moral man? 


Do those politicians who steal and become hugely wealthy not get better appreciated, and recognized than those who retire in penury on account of principles?


Not many Urhobo people even knew that Frank Kokori was being buried yesterday, and those who knew didnt care. He is of no material consequence afterall. He was not a rich man by any means, not even the richest in his small corner of Ovu Community, and so what really was the incentive to be attracted to his burial event? 


It appears what matters in our part of the world is wealth and more wealth, which one can thereafter throw around to curry praises, good name and bragging rights. In the light of this, it is a highly contestable matter whether it is better to be a Frank Kokori or a Babagana Kingibe.


RAMADAN KAREEM

Culled from Tribune*****

Monday, March 25, 2024

Current realities

 If you stay in Ikorodu and work on the Island,


It has to be near garage,

With BRT,

You spent #1450 daily as transport fare, that's if you don't need to take Keke or another transport to where you work.


In a week,

That's #7,250

In a month,

That's #29,000


In a country where minimum wage is #30,000


Let's say the person in the scenario above earns even #100,000 monthly,


Factor in cost of feeding @#1,500 per day *just smile because that not realistic Abi?* That's #45,000 in 30 days


He will buy Airtime and data *In sane climes, there is wifi is buses, offices, parks and public places*


He will put aside some money for his house rent, electricity and other home bills.


What if he has aged parents and younger siblings?


What about other exigencies?


He won't need new shoes or clothes in one year ?


He doesn't need detergents to wash the ones he his wearing ? *I'm not even talking about patronising dry cleaners*


Yet,

The balalabulians will still blame people like him as being responsible for part of our economic woes.


Can Nigerians just remove the ethnic and political veil, speak the truth and demand for proper governance instead of making excuses for the same set of people that have perpetually ensure they live in penury ???



Shogo Oloshunde

21022024

Monday, July 17, 2023

Academic Tourism - Femi Akinwunmi

 Academic tourism have become dangerously expensive for Nigerian parents who are always desperate to send their children to school abroad. I guess the exchange rate was 820/$ as at Friday.


I know the quality of education is very poor in Nigeria, but there are pockets of private high schools and universities still offering good quality education. If you can afford to “try” a foreign education for your child, you should be able to afford some of these private universities.


Nothing wrong if you allow your children to have their first degrees in Nigeria, and they go for masters degree abroad if they so choose. 


There are a lot of Nigerian children abroad in high schools and as undergraduates in Universities who are under severe stress because their parents back home cannot afford to fund their education after the initial compulsive shipping out. A lot of parents have ended up “destroying” the lives of their children because of this elitist mindset of their wards acquiring foreign education by all means. 


Not a few of these children are out of school, some are into drugs and all manners of terrible vices.


Sending your children to foreign schools do not translate into automatic success, so why the rat race to do what you cannot afford?


Now, it is okay, if you can afford it, but it is not okay if you cannot afford it. Maybe it is okay if your child is brilliant enough to get a full scholarship, and you have the resources to fund the extras, but it is not okay if you could merely make ends meet, and you need to sell family assets to pay tuitions. 


Nigerians do not love engaging in this type of honest discussions, we do not share experiences and knowledge, and have no chance to guide others from avoiding the mistakes we have made.


Please, if you do not have the financial power, do not engage, or you will end up “destroying” the lives of your children in ignorance. A lot have gone on this self destructive path, but everyone is covering up their follies. All you know is that his child is in “the abroad”, a child that is already totally lost. 


A word is enough for the wise.


Femi Akinwunmi

Sunday, July 16, 2023

THIS IS OUR SOCIETY - Mutiu Popoola

 THIS IS OUR SOCIETY


A poor man went to a rich man's house and found him  seated in the company of his friends. He greeted the big man and, in tears, said: "Sir, I am a poor man. I ate last yesterday afternoon and have had nothing to eat again since then. I have been looking for any kind of job without luck. My wife delivered a baby boy at home last night, and she too has eaten nothing, preventing her breast milk from flowing. The baby has since been crying out of hunger.


I came to you to plead for assistance. I do not need money, just foodstuff, even that, no need to give me directly. I prefer your driver to accompany me, deliver the items directly to my family, and see things for himself."


The rich man thought deeply, then called his driver and said: "Here, take this N50,000 and a bag of rice. Take this man to his house. If he shows you a woman with a newborn baby, give him the money and the rice. If, for any reason, you don't see them, return the gifts to me."


The driver took the man in his car, and they drove into the city. They reached a house, and the man entered, then came out and said that the nursing mother was not in. The driver said the husband should phone her to come back to enable him to fulfill his duty.

The man said she had no phone. The driver said he would then wait till she returned.


When the man noticed the driver was bent on doing as his boss ordered, he looked at him straight in the eye and said: "I have a proposal for you. Forget about a woman or no woman. Take the rice and give me the  money." But the driver refused. The man then said: "Ok, let's do it this way. Take the rice and let us share the  money. " Still, the driver refused. The man finally asked him: "How much do you really want?" The driver said: "I want nothing other than either to see the woman and hand over the items to you, or I return all to my master. "

The man looked at him angrily, hissed, and simply walked away.


🌹 When the man walked away, the driver stopped at a roadside shop and told the owner he needed cash urgently, so he would sell his N20,000 bag of rice for N15,000. The shop owner quickly paid and offloaded the rice.


The driver went home and informed his master that he had carried out the assignment. His master asked him if the poor man's story was true, and he said he really saw the nursing mother. The master then said: "Good. Now take me to the family to enable me assist them more properly. "


The driver took the rich man towards the city, but while the car a/c was on, the master noticed the driver was sweating profusely, his hand was shaking on the steering, and his speech was incoherent.


The master ordered him to park and asked what the problem was. Seeing there was no point lying, the driver confessed to the other man's and his own guilt. He handed over the N50,000 and the N15,000 for the rice and begged for mercy. He then drove them back home.


The rich man told his friends what happened and said: "This is the problem with our society. 

Someone will seek your help. Unknown to you, he is a fraudster. If you help him, he has cheated you and will continue. If you don't, you feel guilty because you are not sure. Society will also say you are merciless.

Similarly, someone will ask for a job, like this driver. If you reject him, you feel you are fuelling social problems. If you employ him, he cheats you. What kind of society is this? How can this problem be solved? Who can correct this anomaly?"


Neither the rich man nor his friends could answer the questions because honesty has become a rare commodity in our society..... guess what?  


These people are not government or the leadership.  They are the same people that complain every day about the LEADERS.


Mutiu Popoola


NB; It doesn't however implies that we don't have enough good people in our society, we need to address issues of morals that have grown greed and entitlement mindset to a high level - Editor/Publisher

Thursday, July 13, 2023

Be careful - Ademola Adigun

 It is not an easy thing to manage other people’s money. If you are not careful, you can get to trouble. And financial ruin.


Aunty had prided herself on being prudent. A thing of pride for her. Dutiful and meticulous. She used to say “no one can get to me” I am above temptation. Many tried but failed. Then she met Farida. High flying Farida. Party goer and gorgeous mama. They became friends and rolled together. Soon Farida introduced her to the better life. Aunty enjoyed parties and co.


Farida introduced her to investments in Dubai. Homes and properties. The new destination she told Aunty. Aunty was very cautious. She put in some. She got returns. She played with the rules.


She had considerable cash in her custody. One day she went to meet her boss. That she would be retiring soon. She was leaving the firm. Priced a high rental. Money was coming in. She was going places. She had even started fighting Japan.


She bought a new car. She attended a party and met Sekoni. A hunk. Sekoni soon won her heart. Sekoni was a liger… he made her purr and moan… soon they were doing business together. She introduced him to offshore investors in Dubai. She introduced him to Farida. They were a trio hanging out together.


Then a mega deal came. I don’t need to tell you that story. A predictable end. She could not resign anymore she was stuck with the job and had to pay debts. They did her badly. She later found out that Sekoni and Farida were siblings. One took her heart, the other took her funds.


What worried her most was that Sekoni also packed her underwear. Why? she did not know. But he left her a note …


When she discovered she wailed…”Oko mi lowo.. otun ko pata” 


The note he left read …”Olubadan ki se eni a ri fin”


- Ademola Adigun

NB; Some of this are fictions, but learn from it

Need through vulnerabilities - Ademola Adigun

 I need you in my life.. without you I can’t exist… he/she needs me in their life.. without me they can’t thrive


 A guy’s father is very ill. The guy describes the father as a strong pillar and anchor. The father is in the hospital dying from an illness. He tells the girl he is trying to date that he is overwhelmed and can’t visit the dad that is his anchor. He keeps the girl inundated with the father’s illness. 


But he never visits. He explains to the lady how much he needs her at that hour of need. The lady is smart. She can recognize a manipulator. She thinks low of persons that use situations to pursue affection. She also realizes the play.. to make her feel needed. It works. Most people fall for it. They like to believe they are useful. Man are good at exploiting that need to feel needed.


Case 2

She is a people pleaser. She gets her high from pleasing people. She loves the attention that follows. He recognizes that need in her. He knows how to manipulate that need for approval, for applause, for validation. It works. He celebrates that vulnerability. Constantly shouting about her contributions to the life of others. It works. The drug that screams people should like me. I am helpful. Without me “they” can survive.


People will always see that weakness in you and exploit it. People are not bad. They just sometimes need to feed on your vulnerabilities as you seek adulation.


See a praise singer? Just calls you your name. A security person you will never see hails you “honourable”. A stranger comes into your inbox and manipulates you to meet their needs. You fall… they meet a need you have…. To be thought of as nice. To be celebrated…


It is life.


- Ademola Adigun 

Wednesday, May 17, 2023

Common Sense

 Someone sent this to me via WhatsApp,

It's worth sharing


An obituary printed in the London Times... absolutely dead brilliant!!


Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was, since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as:


- Knowing when to come in out of the rain;

- Why the early bird gets the worm;

- Life isn't always fair;

- And maybe it was my fault.


Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don't spend more than you can earn) and reliable strategies (adults, not children, are in charge).


His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.


Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job that they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their unruly children.


It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer sun lotion or an aspirin to a student; but could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.


Common Sense lost the will to live as the religious centers became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims.


Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault.


Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.


Common Sense was preceded in death,

-by his parents, Truth and Trust,

-by his wife, Discretion,

-by his daughter, Responsibility,

-and by his son, Reason.


He is survived by his 5 stepbrothers; 

- I Know My Rights

- I Want It Now

- Someone Else Is To Blame

- I'm A Victim

- Pay me for Doing Nothing


Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone. If you still remember him, pass this on. If not, join the majority and do nothing.